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IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF LANCASTER COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA

CIVIL ACTION – LAW

“EXHIBIT P”

BENNETT J. VONDERHEIDE :
Plaintiff,

v.

CALVARY CHURCH :
Defendant,

v.

Wendy Flanders
Defendant

v.

Others Listed Herein As Item 1. COMPLAINT PARTIES

K. Exhibits

P. DEFENDANT KY DEFENDANT WF DEFENDANT CC Timeline – Detail

1. W had been in contact with George May (K’s boss) at time of first PFA – I was told there had only been superficial phone contact. W said they suggested couples counseling and she wanted to do. Approx. Feb - /02
2. W says George May called her out of the blue to follow up why we had not been in contact. Approx. April - /02
3. W attends class on separation or such taught by George and K each Wednesday night. Beginning spring 02 until present as far as I know.
4. W registers Q as Flanders at Sunday school at Calvary. This is first time I saw K. Approx. Fall/02
5. From at least then on W spends four and more hours each Sunday at Calvary and a couple hours each Wednesday. K is involved in Sunday Schooling Q and counseling Q (against my direct order to her). They also attend every possible extra program they can.
6. During this entire time K and her influence through her position at Calvary have had the most frequent and most powerful impact on Q in his life (outside W). W & K have “strategize so K has had much more time and influence over my son in this time than I could possibly have.
7. While I had 50% custody I was refused decision making on Q’s religion and education (Sunday school) completely. W & K made all the decisions for me.
8. I call George and request he ask W about boyfriend. The next day W man friend tries to start a fight with me because of what I had said to George had come full circle around to him through K & W. Sept /03
9. K and George advised me (on behalf of W) to call each day and try to speak to Q (see harassment charges file). Approx. August/September 2003.
10. W files criminal harassment charges for these calls made during September. (Charges filed in November after I stop making calls by my own decision).
11. Based on the charges from phone call set-up the DJ imposes bail restriction “NO CONTACT” with W. Dec /03 – April or May /03 (see nul prose).
12. During this entire period K attempts to convince me to come to W’s house to get Q (order says my back yard) so they can initiate a bail charge and “I go directly to jail – do not pass go – do not collect $200).
13. A couple times I go as far as to be right outside on the street while Q calls me (as bait yelling “Daddy come here” – “daddy PLEASE Come here”) to come in.
14. Aside from getting to volunteer at school K & W kept him from me for 5 ½ months during this rouse.
15. K ran extensive father hating counseling – “You have the worst Daddy in the world” – “Your Mommy picked the wrong Daddy” - etc, etc, etc. 2 ½ years. (based on her statements about me and her admission she is counseling Q)
16. Throughout the process I am acting pro se and W has unlimited counsel of Jimmy always with K and her team on their side.
17. By Easter Sunday 04 I had not seen Q for a while and the only contact was and had been through K and her team. I leave message after message for week after week with no satisfaction at all. Playing games with my son and me.
18. I take all evidence to Todd Nathan (K’s associate) to show them what is actually happening. I invite John Harris to come along and he states the same. (I had only first called John a week or so before to initiate communication).
19. I am concerned and feel K & Todd have taken all our evidence and given to Mr. Jimmy.
20. I leave a message asking rhetorically, How would you like it if someone took your son, and you did not get to have Christmas with them, or Easter. If your child’s Christmas presents were still on the floor on Easter. And then you listened to the sermon on the radio from Calvary Church saying how great and Holy they were while they lied and manipulated your child away.
21. K calls Manheim Twp Police and I get call of warning.
22. I am to find my salvation elsewhere! – Never call K, George, Todd or any church #, or appear on Church grounds again – period!
23. At each court hearing K &/or Todd, etc have appeared and assisted W side. While they act like they are neutral they then enter the private room with W & Jimmy to negotiate, strategize and manipulate the system to take away my son.
24. During this entire time K is helping W utilize every asset K can find, especially exploiting the good will of the benevolent committee at Calvary. Paying rent, oil & electric bills and who knows what. Helping W to file and lie and get more money from John and me.
25. I think that sometime during this past summer K & W realized W was loosing all credibility and ability to attack by false testimony in this town. By September at the latest they had lost the edge they had at school and needed to move.
26. Planned on and executed illegal move of Q from Conestoga. Including;
27. Prepare to move and find apartment (I understand K helped her find housing).
28. Planned their own PFA but were hustled into different set of circumstances than they planned on filing. This PFA was to keep me completely away from the new home, town, school and all (look how excited they get when I just get to drop off my son at school – obviously when K planned on moving Q to her daughters school she was confident they could block me 100% OUT).
29. Strategize to circumvent the order and block my participation in Q home, school or anything decisions.
30. Physically moves Q from Conestoga with husband Ted and others from her church group.
31. Planned on and moved Q into one room schoolhouse where she and W can completely control all. This is school where K’s daughter has attended for years. K lives near and now so does W.
32. Between school and church K has absolute control over his days and life. These are the prime and almost exclusive places Q spends any time except for home with W.
33. Writes letter demonstrating (only the tip of the iceberg) what she has been doing and is willing to do above and below the belt to stop my custodial rights in school.
34. Will and has continued to counsel Q no matter what the court or I say. Until her and the Great and Wonderful Wendy part ways soon. – W is already looking for and may have found the next replacement for K.

Note that I first (at Pats suggestion), then Pat, then Ron have taken the truth and a preponderance of evidence to K’s boss and associates, then the big cheeses at church but K has successfully tricked the lot of them into inaction. They have only used the info we have given them to thwart our efforts in court by helping Jimmy based on what we told them and showed them

KATHY YODER AND THE CIRCLE OF THE GRAND OBTUSE

K. Exhibits

A. Current Custody Order Of Judge Wayne G. Hummer, Jr. In The Case Of Quinta Xavier Vonderheide 08.06.02

B. PAS: How to Detect It and What to Do About It 11.99

C. A Guide To The Parental Alienation Syndrome 03.99

D. Kathy Yoder E-Mail to Principal Pavlovec 11.17.04

E. Pennsylvania State Code CHAPTER 49. LICENSURE OF PROFESSIONAL COUNSELORS 04.02.02

F. Memo from DEFENDANT KY to DEFENDANT GM and DEFENDANT TN Concerning PLAINTIFF’S Minor Son QXV 05.23.04

G. Letter to DEFENDANT George Duff from PLAINTIFF Attorney Longo 11.22.04

H. ACA Code of Ethics and Standards of Practice 1995

I. Letter To PLAINTIFF Attorney Longo From DEFENDANT CC Chairman of Elders DEFENDANT George Duff 12.07.04

J. Letter to PLAINTIFF Attorney Longo From DEFENDANT Jeffrey A. Feirick Denying and Including Records 01.03.05

K. Philhaven Evaluation by DEFENDANT OO 7.23.04

L. Philhaven Treatment documents from DEFENDANT AK 10.04 – 01.05

M. Letter To Parent or Guardian From Philhaven Requesting Release Signature; Sent to Plaintiff After Having Performed Treatment on His Son 01.14.05

N. The Principles of Medical Ethics With Annotations Especially Applicable to Psychiatry 2001 Edition 2001

O. DEFENDANT WF Abuse of Process Timeline 03.02 – 12.04

P. DEFENDANT WF and DEFENDANT KY DEFENDANT CC Interaction Timeline 02.02 – 11.04

Q. Quinta Quotes 05.04 – 02.05

R. The Name Game 06.98 – 05.04

S. Letter to DEFENDANT BM from PLAINTIFF Attorney Longo 12.21.04

T. Name Change Order Of Judge Perezous 10.14.04

U Mountville Family Practice Treatment Notes for the Minor Child QXV 07.09.98 – 02.01.05

V. Adderal Article- CANADA PULLS HYPERACTIVITY DRUG OFF MARKET 02.11.05


W. Remeron Article: Suicide Warning Ordered On Drugs 10.16.04


X. Letter to DEFENDANT WF From Dr. Parke Mountville Family Practice 02.15.05


Y. Letter to PLAINTIFF From Dr. Parke Mountville Family Practice 02.15.05


Z. Letter to Principal Colleen Pavlovec From DEFENDANT WF Attorney Wolman 11.01.04


AA. CV Exceptional Student Evaluation 04.11.05

BB. Letter To PLAINTIFF From Francis D. Sparrow, M.D. Philhaven Medical Director Clearing Quinta of Medical Aspersions 02.10.05

Lawsuit Pages: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5

Lawsuit Web Page 1.

A. COMPLAINT PARTIES

Lawsuit Web Page 2.

B. FACTS

Lawsuit Web Page 3.

C. COUNT I DEFAMATION
D. COUNT II BREECH OF CONFIDENTIALITY
E. COUNT III ABUSE OF PROCESS

Lawsuit Web Page 4.

F. COUNT IV ALIENATION OF AFFECTION
G. COUNT V. NEGLIGENCE

Lawsuit Web Page 5.

H. COUNT VI. VIOLATION OF COURT ORDERS RELATING TO QUINTA XAVIER VONDERHEIDE
I. OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE
J. PRAYER FOR RELIEF
K. EXHIBITS